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Hello and Welcome…

I’ve added a brand new page to my blog, as of the 24th of May 2012. It’s where I’m going to answer any questions that you have about working with the “Law of Attraction” to deliberately creating your own life. I’ll be checking in here every day (except the days that I don’t feel like working :) ), to help you with your questions.

If you have private or confidential questions, you can still send them to info@newyoulifecoaching.net.

Sooo – I wonder who’ll be the one to ask the first question……

Warmly
Richard.

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jacinta December 6, 2016 at 3:22 pm

Hi Richard
I need your guidance. I have being working for an Airline company for over 21years, my position was made redundant and the last 4 months I have being looking for a job. Part of me wants to stay in the airline industry because its what I know, the our part wants to do something completely new.
I need guidance in the following, I am getting a lot of self doubt about myself and my abilities, i was previously bullied at work from a boss who thought my work was not quick enough. How do you overcome this with a world that wants everything fast?
Also I am panicking and I can feel anxiety building up about not having a job how do you overcome this ?
Though I want to do something new I was ask what am I good at,? and I cant believe I struggle with this question ,
Guidance Is appreciated

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Richard December 7, 2016 at 4:27 am

Hey Jacinta,

It would be an awesome pleasure the help you.

Please write to info@newyoulifecoaching.net and put in the subject line “Richard asked me to schedule a free one on one session with him”.

Lou, our customer service manager will set that up, I’ve let her know to expect it from you.

If for some reason you haven’t heard from anyone in the next 4 days, then just make another post here and I’ll take care of it personally.

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gailen August 18, 2016 at 3:48 am

Good Morning,
I am working on clearing old beliefs and fine tuning my desires, I notice that once I get clear about what I want, I get a feeling of guilt and I know that this is fear, and also not believing that what I want is okay. I am in a relationship I am more than ready to leave, I know how good I will feel when I am not in it, I then shut down and avoid dealing with this, because I have children and it feels selfish and possibly hurtful and Iam not sure how I can create this.I know I want to be free and I know I am ready to move and I know that I am pinching off interests and what I want. I rarely share what I want with anyone, because when I have I have been told it was not realistic or possible and that I needed to stay. I no longer give energy to the relationship meaning I do not dwell on it. I have been a stay at home mom for 1 years and I am having trouble seeing another way to live,. I am a painter, a free spirit and this life of doing what I think I should versus what makes me happy and fulfilled , makes me sad. At my best, I am light and love nd happy and interested in the world around me, I can feel the energy of change inside, but have trouble calling an image. This summer, I decided that I was intent on spending the summer at the beach and guess what, the opportunity presented itself and I took it, I began also to seel my art work again . My energy is crossed and I feel stuck, I know what I want and how I want to live and what I want to feellike, then I feel guilty.
How to I get beyond those feelings, that are blocks and be selfish in the best way?

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Richard August 27, 2016 at 10:14 am

Gailen, I hear you loud and clear. I have a few very important ideas to share with you. I want you to schedule a free Coaching Strategy Session with me. Let’s discuss a bit more over the phone and create some momentum for change for you. Ok? http://www.chakra-consciousness.com/strategysession/Application.php. And here’s something to thank about in the meantime. You mentioned your children. If you want to best serve your children, you will “show them” not “tell them”. You want them to be courageous and make the best decisions for their lives? Do the very same for yourself. Let them get wind of it and learn with you as their model.

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Kathy February 10, 2015 at 5:07 am

Hi Richard,
I have your eight subliminal videos and I’m actually just starting to view them now on a regular basis. My problem is I’m in a relationship with a man I love a lot. I noticed that since I gained weight we began to argue more and more and now he hardly calls and I can feel the tension and distance between us. I have tried to talk to him about it but he just makes excuses saying that he’s busy. He use to tell me how much he loved me and misses me. Now he never says these things anymore. I am so hurt, lost and confused. My question is, about how long should it be before I start seeing results with the subliminal videos and which one would you suggest would be more effective. Thank you!

Kathy

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Richard February 13, 2015 at 2:39 am

Hey Kathy, I suggest you follow the instructions of watching the videos. I suggest you watch “(1) The awakening: Raise your consciousness” and watch (2)”Boost your self esteem and Love yourself again”. Please remember when you Love yourself everything works in your life. Hope that helps. Warmly Richard.

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Wanda A. May 26, 2014 at 7:53 pm

Richard,
When I was younger until my late twenties I was able to see things just minutes before they happened. Today I do not see anything. What should I do? I know I still have the gift; I can feel it. I feel as though my gift is lying dormant somewhere. What happened to me? Sometimes it is hard to relax.

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Richard May 26, 2014 at 8:55 pm

Wanda, Please book a free 30 minute consult and I believe I can help you with this. Here’s the link – http://budurl.com/timewithrichard. Warmly Richard.

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Bobbie May 20, 2014 at 9:55 pm

I have a question: I am a speaker and love to inspire and encourage people who are struggling with their self-esteem. The only thing js that all of the 4 speaking talks I gave was free. For the life of me, I can’t get any paying ones. I also coach self-esteem. When I tell them of the price, they say they will call which they never do. My charges are quite reasonable at $100 for each coaching session. I know people who charge 5x’s that amount. Richard, can you tell me what affirmations could I recite for these two instances? Or what am I doing wrong?

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Richard May 23, 2014 at 2:09 am

Bobbie, Please book a free 30 minute consult and I believe I can help you with this. Here’s the link – http://budurl.com/timewithrichard. Warmly Richard.

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Joanna April 21, 2014 at 2:00 pm

Richard, When I first opened your email about 7 tips to improve your intuition, there was a free subliminal 6:02 minute video available with images of healthy food, meditative poses and healthy bodies (along with some text). It was suggested to watch this video twice daily. Now I can’t locate that particular video again. How can I find it?

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Richard April 22, 2014 at 3:01 am

Hey Joanna,

Below is the link you are after. Warmly Richard.

http://www.richardaluck.com/videos/7-tips-to-improve-your-intuition/

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Angel González Vázquez March 30, 2014 at 10:11 am

HI RICHARD, I´VE JUST READ THE ARTICLE OF DR. ROBERT ANTHONY, AND THE LESSON WAS VERY INTERESTING AND INSTRUCTIVE, THANKS.
I HAVE A QUESTION, IN YOUR OPINION WICH IS THE BEST FREQUENCY TO STOP OR ELIMINATE THE INNER SELF NEGATIVE TALKING (CHATTER)? DO YOU BELIEVE BETA IS MORE USEFUL THAN ALPHA? I JUST WORK NOW WITH 17Hz PLUS AFFIRMATIONS. BUT WICH IS YOUR EXPERIENCE ON THAT? CAN YOU ADVICE ME TO IMPROVE?
THANKS AGAIN, AND I KEEP WAITING FOR YOUR NEWS.

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Richard March 31, 2014 at 8:18 pm

Angel, there are too many variables to discuss. Please book a free 30 minute consult and I’ll help you with more with this. Here’s the link – http://budurl.com/timewithrichard. Warmly Richard.

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Katia March 26, 2014 at 10:25 pm

Hi Richard, I am thinking of purchasing your DVDs but will be very honest here – does it work if you are a big fat skeptic?? :) I have quite a wonderful life already (great husband, great kids, happy relationships, very healthy etc). I started in a (MLM) skin care business and this is about the only thing in my life that isn’t where I’d like it to be. And specifically, it’s about recruiting team members. I need at least 5 more to get to the level that I want to achieve. Can your program guarantee results in that area? Blessings, Katia :)

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Richard March 27, 2014 at 11:58 pm

Hey Katia, We do receive alot of emails every day saying Thank you as the product(s) have changed their lives for the better. We do have a money back guarantee if you are not satisfied with the product(s). Warmly Richard.

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Tammy March 19, 2014 at 7:46 pm

Hello Richard,
Question? I plan to quit smoking!
Affirmation? I will quit smoking, not present! I don’t smoke, negative affirmation! So what do I say?

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Richard March 20, 2014 at 8:26 pm

Tammy, when you say an affirmation it has to be true for you.

“I am in control of my life
My body is free of toxins”

Say the above affirmation and say it with feeling like you mean it and smoking will not resonate with you anymore. warmly Richard.

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Dee Dee March 16, 2014 at 9:03 am

I have been trying to learn to meditate effectively. What recommendations do you have?

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Richard March 17, 2014 at 4:50 pm

Hey Dee,

There are lots of awesome trainings available on the internet that are completely free. I’ve just had a look at a few of them and this one http://www.onlinemeditation.org/ looks really good. I’d give that a try and let me know how it works for you.

Warmly
Richard.

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Charlotte Seager November 30, 2013 at 10:04 pm

Hi Richard
I will be speaking to you on Tuesday (confirmation number 2559284). I am well read and well trained for the position of spiritual teacher and wish to teach spiritual science 101, and lead workshops to help women be more self-assured and connected to their Inner Light. However, I find myself running hot and cold over the prospect of starting a new career at my age. From past experience, I can visualize myself being very successful and i get excited about getting back in front of a large group of people again. Then I get cold feet and stop doing the preparation or making the contacts. Can you help me overcome my blockage?

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Charlotte Seager November 30, 2013 at 10:05 pm

….at my age of 74!

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Luis García November 16, 2013 at 5:51 pm

Dear Richard,

I’ve listened to your interview with Rishan and I must say that you guys do come across as believable, trustworthy individuals.

I would concretely like to ask you about how to shatter this self-sabbotage of mine: I get the message, I get into action and then after a few days I start thinking that it’s gonna take years and years for me to make it and then I quit to start over again a few days or weeks later. Let me tell you that every single bad thing described in “Think and Grow Rich” used to (thank God) fit me like a glove. From this, derives that, in my mind, I’ve got like endless obstacles to overcome and think I’m building Castles in Spain.This is reinforced due to the fact I’m 40 (already!)

I’m desperate.If you tell me to eat fried frogs with garlic under a blue moon, I WILL!

TIA

LUIS from Mexico

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Richard November 17, 2013 at 7:02 pm

Hi Luis,

There are so many variables and possibilities that could be
lying at the root of what you are going through, that it really is almost
impossible to deal with by email.

I suggest you book a one on one session with me.

There is a $50 fully refundable booking fee, which is refunded
at the end of the session.

Warmly Richard.

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Simone Lawson October 31, 2013 at 2:16 pm

Hi Richard – I’ve just been notified of a job layoff a few days ago. I’m new to the affirmations, but I do keep journals and believe in writing down my thoughts, goals and what I want and I do keep writing it. So, its very similar. I do know what type of position I would like, can you assist me with a great affirmation for a new position?

Thanks!

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Richard October 31, 2013 at 7:19 pm

Hi Simone, congratulations on taking this next step. The way to manifest anything in your life is to pretend it is here right now. Feel the feelings of being in your dream job right now. See the money coming into your bank account right now. Feel and see yourself at your dream job. Feel free to alter the affirmation I give you to resonate with you. Warmly Richard……………

Affirmation:
I am at my dream job.
My co workers and my boss are great.
My boss loves the work I do.
I love going to work every day.
I receive abundant money from my dream job.

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Simone Lawson October 31, 2013 at 8:58 pm

Thank you Richard, I will practice this immediately!

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Richard November 3, 2013 at 9:18 pm

Simone, the best time to start is NOW. Well Done. Warmly Richard.

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dave mckinnon June 25, 2013 at 5:09 am

Richard hi could you please re-send the dvds of millionare mind set, break through to brilliance, massive motivation,and speed reading please with tracking number # as canada post ha not seen them or our neighbours in the building! ,attention Jim Chan, Unit 34 – 1089 West Broadway, Vancouver, BC V6H 1E5 thankyou!

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Richard June 29, 2013 at 11:38 pm

Hi Dave, have forwarded your query to a customer service team member. Warmly Richard.

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Mariana June 16, 2013 at 11:11 am

Hi Richard, I want to ask you how to atrract true love, your soulmate, if you are aready in love with someone who does not love you back. How can you be postive, or feel love, feel happy, when you know that the person you love doesn´t. Right night i´m attracting love from a scarcity place, it´s like everyday I wake up knowing that my love is not with me. But how can I avoid feeling that way? Can can I attract love when right now I´m feeling broken hearted?

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Richard June 17, 2013 at 9:28 pm

Mariana, Be careful what you think, speak and write as this goes out into the universe and it is manifested in your life. Read what you wrote to me. “if you are aready in love with someone who does not love you back” This is what you wrote with alot of emotion…. This is what I suggest you do. Go to a place you really love, or do something you really love doing ; now imagine a man who loves you just as much as you love him. Feel it, speak it and write it down so it is all consistant. Feel the feelings like it is happening in the present moment. Now that you are in vibrational resonance with this feeling of a man loving you just as much as you loving him, it has to manifest. Any man that comes into your life who does not match this vibration would not even see you, only the man who is willing to love you deeply will come your way…..Warmly Richard.

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Mariana June 12, 2013 at 7:45 am

I´m sorry , I couldn´t complete my idea. The case of a 6-year-old girl who died from an unknown infection. Did she really imagine that in her mind and manifested it? It´s really hard for me to believe how the law of attraction works in these cases. What would you say?

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Mariana June 12, 2013 at 7:39 am

Hi Richard, I’ve been reading and practising the law of attraction for a few years now. I really believe we are the creators of our life. But when I see the terrible news about a 16-year-old girl who was raped and murdered, I wonder did she really wanted that? How could she imagine that for her life? She imagined that in her mind an attracted that to her life? Or the case of a 6-year-old g. irl who died from an infectio

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Richard June 13, 2013 at 10:23 pm

Hi Marina, Thanks for sharing. I do not watch the news so I guess I do not hear terrible news going on in the world. Be conscious of “what you think about, speak about and write about”. This is what creates and shapes your life. Every moment of every day you are creating your future. I hope that helps. Warmly Richard.

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Sparkle May 20, 2013 at 3:34 am

Hi Richard

Im writing my exams in three days, and I don’t know anything. I cant study< cant concentrate, I keep failing. I don't remember anything. I just wanna sleep all the time… Whats wrong?

What can I do?

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Richard May 20, 2013 at 7:54 pm

Hi Sparkle,

Your vibration needs to be lifted. Meditation will help lift your vibration. Try this; put a pen and paper near your bed. Every morning when you get up and every night before you go to bed write 10 things you are grateful for. Feel the gratitude when you write each item down.. This will lift your vibration. Try this for 30 days. Hope this helps. Warmly Richard.

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Jas March 29, 2013 at 11:54 am

My family stopped talking to me,when I left an abusive marriage.Why am I always treated unfairly by every one?Why do I always attract more negative than positive?If,f for one second a negative thought so much even enters my mind,it comes true.But why can’t be the same for the positive thoughts? Can you help me Richard? Thanks!

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Richard March 30, 2013 at 2:13 pm

Hey Jas,

I’m sorry to hear about your marriage. I’m also very very pleased that you had the strength to leave that situation. You should be congratulated for that, and you are an inspiration to anyone else that is in an abusive relationship.

I can show you how to start attracting good things into your life, it’s only a few adjustments, and a little bit of effort and you can really turn things around. Please book a 30 minute consult with me, it won’t cost you anything, here’s the link
http://budurl.com/timewithrichard

Looking forward to talking with you.

Warmly
Richard.

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Hai! Richard January 26, 2013 at 5:01 am

I like you. I wand to spend my whole life with you. Pl help me. Thanks love & light

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tiffany December 4, 2012 at 8:26 am

There is something that i’m not doing to manifest things faster but I dont know exactly see what I could be doing wrong, I’ve been successful in certain things but not as successful with others , but I thought the process was the same for everything can you please help me or atleast give me some pointers on attracting……….. Thanks in Advance Tiffany

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Richard December 6, 2012 at 12:18 am

Hey Tiffany,

Book a free 30 minute consult with me and I’ll be able to help you push through whatever it is in that short space of time. There is a security deposit to make sure everyone shows up, but that gets refunded when you show up.

Here’s the link you need (I don’t bite, so go ahead and book it)

http://budurl.com/timewithrichard

Warmly
Richard.

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nawlu September 26, 2012 at 7:35 am

hi!, thanks a lot! well now i feel little confident, and i’ll tell you about my problem through e-mail because i want it to be confidential. :D

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nawlu September 25, 2012 at 7:31 am

hellow there! im a 17 years old girl and someone confused and I tried to contact some advicers who said they will reply me ,but they never replied and dropped me even down.I hope u will reply me ,will u?

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Richard September 26, 2012 at 7:03 am

Hi Nawlu,

What seems to be the area that you need help with?

Warmly
Richard.

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Agnes July 31, 2012 at 10:40 am

I was told that I will get my “FREE VIDEO” and nada :( why is that? did you just want my subscription and if that is the case, I will opt out.

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Richard August 1, 2012 at 1:48 am

Hey Anges,

I’m sorry you didn’t get it, you should have already received the free video, here’s the link…

http://www.subliminal-videos.com/ty8/

I hope that helps, and if there is anything else I can do, please let me know.

Warmly
Louise
Customer Service Team
New You Life Coaching

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Richard July 11, 2012 at 5:23 pm

brendan’s Question: i want a lottery win. How can i get one?

Hey Brendan – This is a common question :)

Here’s the thing with trying to manifest anything a lottery win, if you are really good at manifesting and you’ve had some great results at being able to manifest most things into your life, then you if keep practicing and improving your skills you will be able to manifest a lottery win as well.

But, if you are good at manifesting, and are able to manifest most things that you want, why would you need to win the lottery?

On the other hand, if you’ve had very limiting success at manifesting anything, then you’ll need to work on improving your skills. It’s best to start with those things that don’t mean a lot to you and then work your way to the things that mean more to you.

It’s always easier to manifest things that don’t have a lot of meaning. When you practice this and see the results you’ll begin to become detached from the meaning of things, and as you do that, manifesting them will become easier.

It’s the meanings that we assign to things that create our internal blocks that prevent us from seeing what the universe has already created for us.

If you want a quick and easy way to begin removing those blocks, check out my Success Accelerator Subliminal Videos.

http://www.subliminal-videos.com

Warmly
Richard

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Richard July 11, 2012 at 5:07 pm

Christine’s Question: This is very interesting, what you are saying, the person
sabotaging is our own self?

Hey Christine – that’s exactly right. The only person that prevents us from doing anything is us. Let me give you an extreme example.

It’s against the law to break into someone home and steal their things. So 99.9% of the population don’t do it. It would be easy to say that the reason we don’t do it is because it’s against the law. But the real reason is because most of us recognize that it’s extremely hurtful and disrespectful to behave that way. So it’s not the law that prevents us from breaking into someone’s house, its a choice that we make based on the beliefs and values we were raised with, and, our current set of life circumstances.

The law is only there to help us deal with the people that break that trust.

The only reason we do things or don’t do things is because of our values and beliefs and our current set of circumstances. We decide at an unconscious level and them rationalize it at a conscious level.

The only difference between people who have those things that they want and those that don’t is the way they think about it. Just let me qualify that by saying that the case in most circumstances in most 1st world countries. There are always exceptions.

I hope that helps.
Warmly
Richard.

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Richard July 11, 2012 at 4:46 pm

Franca’s Question: what if some one is saying , I can do that , but! I will not stand
for (for examples) I will not put up with lateness, because , i got fired
being late and i don’t want to have too fire you ! is this s good but and
because .

That’s a great question. The “But and Because” process reveals to us, our own beliefs and values. Many of those will be good ones, some of them will show limiting beleifs. The purpose of the exercise is to become aware of them all and decide what works for us and what holds us back.

When you identify behavior that crosses your boundaries, that if you were to accept it would result in you disrespecting yourself, then its a good “but and because”. There’s a word of caution here, just make sure you are delving right into true reason.

So lets have a deeper look at your example. You won’t except people being late BECAUSE you got fired for being late and you don’t want to have to fire them. The only reason you should be concerned about someone being late is if it effects their performance of their responsibilities or they are not making up for the lost time.

So ask yourself, are you drawing a boundary with them for being late because you got fired for being late, or are you doing it because it effects their performance?

Warmly
Richard

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Richard July 9, 2012 at 5:05 am

Sue’s Question: I don’t recall ever asking to attract the negative people in my life yet that’s what I seem to have. I am the one everyone runs to for help. Who helps me?

Hey Sue – there’s another way to look at what you are experiencing….

There is a need for you to be the person that everyone runs too. Start knowing that people can solve their own problems – but only if you allow them too.

Don’t you think it’s time for you to do that now?

Warmly
Richard

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Sue July 9, 2012 at 12:35 pm

Hi Richard
Thank you for replying to my question. I have another with regards to your response.
Don’t we all have a “need” to be needed? I KNOW people can figure things out for themselves but how do I let them know that without sounding like I can’t be bothered? That’s not me, to push away anyone, especially when they feel they “need” help.
Things such as knowing that I am broke and yet asking for a loan anyway! That was more the idea when I asked the first question.
Your response is very important to me Richard. Thank you

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Richard July 11, 2012 at 4:28 pm

Hey Sue, yes you are absolutely right, part of our makeup is to belong to a group. This is a very primal need or drive that we have.

But solving other peoples problems for them is not being needed. Teaching other people to solve their own problems is far more beneficial. I can’t recall the exact quote, but someone important once said, give a man a fish and you’ll feed him for a day, teach a man to fish and you’ll feed him for life” The only presumption here is that the man is ready to be taught how to fish :)

So it’s not a matter of pushing people away, its more about showing them how they can solve their own problems.

In your example of people asking you for money when you are broke, the best response is “How much do you need? and then What can you do to deliberately create that in your life now?” some people will just tell you that you are no help and they just want you to give them the money. Those people aren’t ready to learn how to fish yet. There’s nothing more you can do for them. Lending them money will only feed them for a day and tomorrow they’ll be hungry again.

Now there’s always going to be some circumstances when it’s important to feed someone for that day and you have to use your best judgement to decide when that is. For the most part, the best thing to do is to attempt to teach them to fish.

I hope that helps.

Warmly
Richard

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Richard July 9, 2012 at 4:48 am

Dee’s Question: Why do I not seem to be able to quit smoking?

Hey Dee – Smoking is a physical and mental addiction! And it’s hard to give up, I know that because I’m an ex smoker.

When the needs of our bodies call they are very hard to ignore, and smoking becomes a need just like eating and drinking (water). Each step that you take towards giving up is great progress. The universe will help you as long as you truly want to give it up. Remember the universe doesn’t care if you smoke or not, it only cares about delivering the choice you make.

Think hard about the choice you are really making, at the deepest level, and then become determined to make it work. Know that even if you have a setback, its still a step forward because it will be one less setback closer to giving up.

If you’d like to use hypnosis and NLP to help you on that journey, contact me at richardaluck@gmail.com and I’ll give you a hand.

Warmly
Richard.

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Richard July 9, 2012 at 4:36 am

Holly’s Question: I know that negative thinking is really nothing but habit; but, what is the best way to e-train yourself to think positively automatically instead of your first response being a negative thought?

The first step to training your first response to be positive is to recognize that you are having a response :) Most people don’t do this and then it all runs downhill rapidly. So to help you do recognize that you are having a response I suggest that you take 10 to 15 minutes each day to meditate. It’s a very little amount of time, but you will begin to create harmony between your conscious mind and unconscious mind.

Recognizing the response allows you to then take some action, like simply reaching for a more positive thought. That actually is the easy part, the hard part is pulling yourself up in time before it gets all too hard.

So – take a few minutes each day to exercise that wonderful muscle called your mind by meditating.

Warmly
Richard.

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