I believe that there is a huge misunderstanding about self development, that not a lot of people are bothering to explain.
I hear all the time about how having the right mindset will magically deliver all your dreams for you.
Whilst having the right mindset is the first critical step, it will not work on it’s just on it’s own.
Here’s how it works…
You start with a desire for something, then your mindset (thoughts, beliefs and values) around or about that desire will determine what you’ll do next. Your skillset will determine how you do it and your behavior (actions) are the product of your desire, mindset and skillset.
No matter what behavior you have, it feeds back to your desire and then onto your mindset and so and so.
If you don’t have the right mindset, you won’t be able to employ the right skills, you’ll get a bad result which will reduce your confidence, which makes it even harder to use the right skills, and results in an even worse result.
And so the loop goes spiraling downwards out of control.
It also works in reverse, with each loop your confidence improves, and the loop spirals upwards, almost unstoppable.
Over the next few emails I’m going to explain each of the steps in this loop, and what you can do to make sure your loop is spiraling unstoppably upwards.
And with New Year just around the corner, it’s the perfect time of the year to be doing this.
So in the next post I’ll be starting with Desire and explaining just how important it is to understand and know what you really desire vs what you think would be nice to have.
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